It has been a while that I dropped by with some words on this platform. It is always a privilege that I do not take for granted sharing some insights with you from time to time. Hope all is well with you and your loved ones? The second month of the year will soon wind up, are we on the right desired path for this year?
In my generation today, I have discovered that there are many ways of avoiding correction and an apt phrase drawn from the scripture is always used. Exodus 2:14a “And he said, Who made thee a prince and a judge over us?”. Let’s brood on the topic- Judging vs Correcting
Judging someone is by administering a verdict. From a practical standpoint, a judge comes up with his own binding view after listening to all the parties involved. Many times, a judgement can only be appealed at a higher court. However, nowadays it is a rebuttal of an advisory process.
Correcting someone is a way of advising the person to see issues from another viewpoint from where he is standing. In the process of correcting, the person with a superior stance needs a lifestyle that justifies the correction, the person that is being corrected has the opportunity to weigh the advise and come up with a healthy and balanced opinion.
Those who come up with that phrase, “Who made you a judge over me” technically shut others up in order to keep indulging in the wrong lifestyle while those who are willing to take corrections will view it from a persuasive stance which will redefine his or her attitude to life.
At all times, remember this, “in criticizing to correct someone, you should focus more on killing the issue, rather than discreetly killing the personality.” When the personality is killed that’s judging when the person when the issue is discussed that’s correcting.
Let’s not mistake correctional intentions as a judgmental process.
Have a great week ahead.